Pushing 40’s

 

You know how life has a way of speeding up as you get older? Careers take off, relationships come and go, and suddenly, you’re staring down your late 30s wondering where the time went. But through all the chaos, one thing has stayed rock solid in my life: my ride-or-die, my true friend.

Back in our 20s, friendship was all about staying up late, making spontaneous plans, and dreaming big about the future. We were glued at the hip, convinced we’d conquer the world together. Then, adulthood hit, and things got real. Jobs, bills, and all the adulting that comes with it tested our bond. But here we are, pushing 40, and still going strong.

We’ve both landed stable careers—no more bouncing between jobs, wondering if we’ll ever “make it.” And yeah, we’re still single, but that’s not something we lose sleep over. If anything, it’s been empowering. We’ve built lives we’re proud of, with the freedom to live on our own terms. Some people might think we’re clinging to our youth, still going out on weekends like we’re 25, but for us, it’s just about living life to the fullest.

There’s something special about a friendship that can weather the storms of life. It’s not just about all the crazy stories we share but the deep understanding that comes from years of knowing each other inside and out. We’ve been through the awkward stages, the heartbreaks, the wins, and the losses. And now, even as we’re nearing 40, we’ve still got each other’s backs like no one else can.

We might not have the traditional markers of “adulthood”—marriage, kids, settling down—but we’ve got something that’s just as important: a friendship that’s seen us through it all. We’re each other’s chosen family, navigating the ups and downs of life with a partner-in-crime by our side.

As we edge closer to 40, there’s a new sense of calm in knowing who we are and what we want. Our friendship, once built on big dreams and endless possibilities, has evolved into something deeper—a constant in a world that never stops changing. We’ve learned that a true friend isn’t just there for the good times but also for the tough ones, the kind of person who’ll laugh with you in the best moments and hold you up during the worst.

Our weekends might still be filled with fun and adventure, but now we also appreciate the quieter moments, the comfortable silences that say more than words ever could. We’re not just trying to relive the past; we’re creating new memories, writing the next chapter of our story.

In a world where everything feels like it’s in constant flux, it’s comforting to know that some things don’t change. A true friend is one of those rare, unshakeable constants. And as we keep moving forward, I’m grateful to have that kind of friendship in my life—a bond that’s stood the test of time and will continue to do so, no matter what life throws our way.