BONJOUR
I started this blog honestly just trying to keep my head above water. Life gets loud, overwhelming, and sometimes super isolating, especially when you’re young, gay, and living in a place where being yourself isn’t always easy. I’ve always had a lot to say (ask literally anyone who knows me) and this blog became my safe space to let it all out. My thoughts, my hot takes, my random emotional spirals at 2AM — it’s all here.
But this blog isn’t just for me. It’s for the other young gays out there, especially in the Philippines, who feel like they’re too much, too loud, too opinionated, too different. I want to remind you that there’s nothing wrong with being who you are. It’s okay to be gay and still have something to say. It’s okay to take up space, to have opinions, to exist loudly without apologizing for it. The world will always have something to say, but that doesn’t mean you have to listen.
I created the persona "Skinny Brokovich" as a way to channel all the chaos in my brain into something a little more fun, a little more fearless. She’s part messy, part fierce, a little unhinged, but always real. Through her, I get to say the things I’ve always wanted to say without watering myself down.
This blog is messy, loud, and 100% me. And if you ever feel like you're too weird, too queer, too much, just know you're not alone. Normal is boring. Be a little crazy. Cry if you need to. Laugh too loud. Post that unfiltered selfie. Wear whatever you want. Live your life like it’s the only one you’ve got because it is.
Welcome to the chaos. Stay as long as you like 💅🏽✨